Healing from Infidelity – RECLAIM: 7 Keys For Taking Back Your Life & Relationship Healing from infidelity, betrayal, addiction, loss, or disconnection doesn’t happen overnight. It isn’t a straight line from pain to peace – it’s messy, cyclical, and often feels like two steps forward, one step back. You don’t just “get over it.” Relationship […]
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A trauma-informed guide to examining the story after affair disclosure utilizing the RECLAIM Method: map Facts → Meanings → Impacts, avoid drip disclosure, and use time-boxed Q&A to protect both partners. Map the loops without adding new harm. It’s the morning after. Jordan wakes up already mid-question: How long? With whom? Where? When? The urge
After an affair, claiming responsibility is one of the most misunderstood parts of healing. Many people hear the word and instantly think it means admitting fault or taking the blame. But claiming responsibility isn’t about guilt – it’s about clarity. It’s about learning what belongs to you and what doesn’t, so you can stop dragging
Boundaries often get misunderstood. To some, they sound harsh like walls, ultimatums, or a way of pushing people out. But healthy boundaries are none of those things. Boundaries are not punishments. They’re not power plays. And they’re not selfish. In fact, boundaries are one of the most loving things you can bring into a relationship.
Every relationship has vulnerabilities, and they don’t exist in just one place. Like layers in an ecosystem, they show up in us as individuals, in the patterns we create together, and in the world around us. Naming these is not about blame – it’s about gaining clarity about where repair and protection are needed. Jordan
Insight = clarity. Responsibility gives agency. Boundaries give safety. Story gives meaning. Integration makes it stick. By now, Jordan and Alex had begun to see their relationship differently. They named their vulnerabilities from the past, set limits that made love safer, and started to re-author their story. For the first time since the betrayal, they
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7 Key Ways to Change Your Life And Relationship For Good Healing after betrayal, loss, or disconnection isn’t a straight line. It’s a journey with setbacks and breakthroughs, painful honesty and surprising hope. That’s why we created RECLAIM – 7 keys ways to help couples steady themselves, untangle the chaos, and step into a future
You did it. You crossed the line. You cheated. And, now, you are sitting with the weight of what you’ve done. And you’ve been found out.Maybe you confessed. Maybe you got caught. Either way, the secret isn’t a secret anymore and you’re standing in the emotional aftermath, unsure what to do with yourself. The person
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